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Personalize
Faith
Faith was all I had when I had to be my own safe place, my own reassurance, my own soft landing.
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Family
Building
We don’t have a roadmap for what we’ve been through, We have each other – fractured, fumbling, fiercely still here. That’s family. That’s enough.
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Plan
Financial Planning
I’m not wealthy. I still check my balance before swiping. But I also check it without panic now. AND some nights, I SIT with a calculator and just breathe- Because planning for tomorrow feels possible. AND that’s something no ONE ever gave me permission to FEEL.
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Lifestyle
Habits
My hobbies remind me I’m more than my past- MORE than FOSTER CARE, more than TRAUMA, more than SURVIVING. They let me LIVE a little .
Everyday Soul’s
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Focus on your FAITH, not the Storm
Today’s Topic; Blessings I can’t see yet- Writing a letter to my future self about what I’m believing for ? Personal Reflection; I don’t know if I can write this as a letter. But I move to Atlanta Georgia in 2013 on faith on the kindness and blessings of others. Give me STRENGTHS and WEAKNESSES…
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Success isn’t a destination; it’s a decision to do what’s hard now; SO life gets easier later
Today’s Topic; Side hustle thoughts; What’s worth my little free time ? Personal Reflection; I need a side hustle where I don’t have to show my face. 💡
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Family is a circle of strength , love, and support
Today’s Topic; Moving to a new city or country; leaving extended family behind? Personal Reflection; The first thing that happened was the change with my pay. Then looking for a new job in a new city and environment. Went back to school to get my certificate as a CNA starting pay was $12hr. What did…
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A strong body and a quiet mind start on the mat
Today’s Topic; Working out plans; when you night shifts 12-hour CNA Personal Reflection; For me it is hard to stay consistent with a workout plan. Right now I’m trying to get into strength training
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Organized spaces inspire new beginnings
Small goals vs. Big Dreams – Why I need both Personal Reflection; I’ve used my small goals as my short-term goals that I should reach within 6 months. My big dreams are stuffed with long investments as a house, retirement plan, savings account , investments so I’m retire I will not have to work like…
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Books; EVERY day a new page; EVERY month is a new chapter
My current books; Thugs, Love , Self-Care , Thriller , Mystery , Self-Boss Personal Reflection; Reading: ENIGMA BY C.M. BARNES Keep you updated with my OPINION
Hello, I’m Blue Berries Honey.Bun
Hi, I’m Me. My life is a testament to the fact that your beginning doesn’t have to dictate your story.As a former foster youth, I spent a lot of my early years searching for stability.
Today, I don’t just have stability—I have a home bursting with life. It’s filled with the laughter of my daughter, the snoring of my Shih Tzu Justice, and the quiet exhaustion that comes from a honest day’s work in healthcare.
I created For the Everyday Soul for anyone who is building their life from the ground up. Whether you’re raising kids, raising a puppy, raising your standards, or just trying to raise your vibration after a long week—this space is for you. It’s proof that you can take the lessons of a hard past and turn them into a soft, beautiful present.
